SINGMEADITTY, 38
I have a great career teaching music to students and live in fear that one of them will see my picture here! I find my job to be challenging and meaningful and have been at the same school now for 16 years. My good points: I'm generous, fun, passionate, have my own sense of style, spontaneous, real. I am not necessarily a rocket scientist, but can be deep and well intended- I can hold my own in a debate without hand holding. I love to play and laugh. I am always on the go and my friends tell me I schedule 15 things in one day and manage to pull it all off while also maintaining spontaneity. I am a military reservist (Air Force- 19 years), where I sing and play in the band. I have an amazing little rock star son who I learn new things from everyday!!
I think an ideal mate will have the following traits; someone in shape (think athletic, but not over the top extreme adreneline junkie). ... someone who's charming and goofy all at the same time...someone laid back who deals with life as it comes... He will flirt with me in public, eat my cooking, say nice things to my mother, isn't afraid of my father, grabs me under the table at family dinners :), equally comfortable in a suit and tie, all grunged out, and hip trendy whatever.